01 Sep

Familiarity can make us blind

bathroomI used to live in a home that had a very ugly bathroom. It was painted a strange mint like green. It had dark cabinets and a light colored bathtub. None of our towels went well with the room. I grew up with this bathroom and never really noticed it was ugly until I was much older. I came back at Christmas after being away and was amazed at how ugly it really was, and that I had never noticed. Why? Because I was so used to it I was blind to it.

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25 Aug

Obsessing over the right things

lego batmanMy son loves Lego. Whenever he sees a new set he insistently asks me to buy it for him. He has a few different sets, but he has favorites. Right now its Lego Batman, and when he couldn’t find said Batman one day, there was a furious quest in his room to find it for fear that our dog may have eaten it. He became obsessed with finding it, and in turn I had to join in on the obsession. Thankfully the dog didn’t eat it.
When we loose something we love, something important to us, we obsess over it. We must find it. Read More

18 Aug

Working through Infallibility and Inerrancy

BibleIf you are like me and have friends who do not go to church, or believe in Jesus, chances are you’ve been faced with some really interesting questions at times. One that I get often from people I know is about the bible. A lot of us are really confused (both inside and outside the church) on what the bible is and what we should do with it. Often I get asked about how it got put together, why there are so many contradictions and how can you trust something that people have changed over and over again in history.

I believe in letting the bible be the authority in your life, and that sometimes even if we don’t agree with it, it doesn’t mean the text isn’t true and it should affect how we live.

Giving the text authority in our life is very important. But one of the struggles we will have with giving the bible authority in our life is in wrestling with the idea that scripture is infallible and innerant.  Read More

14 Aug

Dear Christian sitting in a coffee shop…

Coffee_Love.jpg.crop_displayDear Christian in a coffee shop,

I love spending time in coffee shops. You do too don’t you?

I can’t think of any place I would rather be in to meet people and work ,than coffee shops. In fact as I write this, I am in one right now.

More than once a week I find myself meeting with someone over coffee or spending time working at a local shop. I’ve had some great meetings here. Meeting with people who are just incredible when you get to know them.

And it is great to see you here. It is great to see you there with a bible open. I’m just guessing that you are taking some time out of your day to get closer to God. There are few things I like more than seeing people grow with God. And I love that sometimes you meet with friends and you talk about church and challenge each other to grow.

I believe firmly that we need community. Whether you follow Jesus or not I believe everyone needs community and I love that you have found it with likeminded people who can challenge you to grow closer with God. Although we don’t know each other more than an occasional hello and short conversation, I am glad you are here with them.

It’s great to see you here.

The thing I think I love the most is meeting new people here. Meeting the staff and getting to know them a little. It’s pretty great when they see you and remember what you order most days and get it ready for you. Or when they ask what I do for work and they give me that unsure look when I say I am a pastor. Or the conversation that follows when they say “you don’t really look like a pastor,” like we are supposed to have a certain look. I love these people. And the people that come here to get coffee, I love them too, even though I don’t know them.

Getting coffee is why I come, but for me the community is why I stay.

I love it here.

But there are some things I don’t love.

I don’t love it when you get mad at the person serving you when they ask you to repeat your order because you were too busy talking on your cell phone when you got to the cash and there is a big line up behind you.

I don’t love it when you yell “What?” at the person who is handing you your drink.

I don’t love it when you speak about the people sitting in the shop in a loud and condescending voice. There is no reason for that, if you are upset that they have an extra chair at their table, you should just go over and talk to them and ask if you could use it.

I also don’t love it when you discuss with your friends in a voice the whole shop can hear your arguments about who is and isn’t going to hell.

Please stop.

The people here are people just like you. People who need love and hope, just like you or me.

Please stop behaving like a jerk.

And just because someone asks you to talk a little lower does not mean you are being persecuted and it is the end of days. It just means you are loud and obnoxious, and they cannot hear the person they are trying to talk to sitting in front of them.

Please stop. You are making us look bad. Actually you are making Jesus look bad.

Sincerely,

Another Christian in a coffee shop

 

Disclaimer: If you feel this is written about you I am sorry. I am sorry, not because I may have hurt your feelings, but because you haven’t been told before that how you treat others is horrible. This isn’t really directed to anyone, but a composite sketch of many people I have encountered at local coffee shops in different cities. If you think it is you, maybe its God trying to tell you to take a look at how you behave and change.

12 Aug

What does it mean when we say Jesus is Lord?

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It was a saying that could have got you killed in the first three centuries after Christ. Today that most likely won’t happen. So what does it mean if we confess that Jesus is Lord?

Historically the confession was in direct contrast to the empire of the day. The statement draws the conclusion that if Jesus is Lord, than Caesar can not be. Not living under an oppressive regime that that requires me to worship its leader, the statement has different but similar implications. Read More

05 Aug

What might the Apostle Paul say about Mark Driscoll?

 

Mark Driscoll seems to be in the news a lot right now, or at least in the news for a small segment of western Christian culture. And his news making is not for the best of reasons. The mega church pastor has been accused of plagiarism, misusing church funds, silencing former church members and staff and having a company make his book a best seller in the last year.

And that’s not to mention the misogynistic, homophobic, bullying actions that he has been known for over his years of coming to prominence.

I’ve never been much of a “fan” of Driscoll’s style or teaching.

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27 Apr

Post lenten reflections

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For the past 6 years I have built into my spiritual life the discipline of practicing lent. While I had fasted and abstained from things before that for lent, around 6 years ago is when I started to take it very seriously. Past experiences with lent had taught me that it is really not hard to give something up for forty days.

But this year I was a bit stumped on what to give up. So almost last minute I decided to abstain from eating fast food and blogging.

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04 Mar

Why I practice lent, and maybe you should too.

2011-03-lent-bigToday is Ash Wednesday. For many Christians around the world this day marks the beginning of an important season known as lent. And for many other Christians today is just another day that begins a season that “only Catholics” need to think about.

Having grown up with a mildly catholic background I’ve always been familiar with lent. And I was very surprised when I began following Christ and entered into Protestant circles how many Christians either didn’t know about lent or ignored it.

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20 Feb

What I am learning about church from Michael Bay.

A few weeks ago during the SuperBowl amidst the usual football and pageantry going on, there were some amazing commercials. While I didn’t get to watch the game, I took the time after to check out the commercials.  I didn’t watch them all but one I was particularly interested in, a preview for the upcoming Transformers movie.

As a kid I loved transformers. I had the toys, I watched the show, and I remember seeing the animated movie in the theater. I even had this super amazing transformers trash can that probably is a collectors item now but I just threw my garbage in it.

transformers church

It’s a robot riding a robot dinosaur, how can this be bad?

Now as an adult, I still love transformers, and unlike many adults who loved transformers as a kid, I liked the recent movies. But most don’t, and they let the world of the internet know they don’t. One of the things that amazed me as I read some of the comments saying how horrible the new movie will be based on the 30 seconds seen online is how similar the sentiment of disgust towards this yet to be released movie was to how some people feel about changes in the local church.

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15 Feb

The difference between preaching and teaching

I love to preach and teach. If there is one thing I could do for the rest of my life I would probably preach and teach. There is something that just draws me to it. I love learning and then sharing what I learn.

As a younger person I thought I might become a high school teacher because of this love. But when I started following God that gradually changed to me wanting to teach in church.

But the more I have had time to teach, the more I have come to wonder if teaching has done more harm than good in the church. And I think church might need a lot less teaching and more preaching.

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